Looking to connect and maybe more
candide38
Santa Fe, New Mexico | Мушкарац тражим мушкарца
Основни подаци
Говорим
Енглески, Француски
Мој опис
About me:
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
Хороскопски знак
Рак
Изглед и стање
Моје грађа
Атлетска/обликована
Висина
178 цм
Боја очију
Плавa
Раса
Из Европе
Брачно стање
Разведен/Разведена
Имам децу
Да - није/нису код куће
Желим децу
Не
Моја најбоља карактеристика
Очи
Телесна обележја
Остало
Боја косе
Сребрна
Имам
Немам кућне љубимце
Спреман/Спремна за селидбу
Да
Статус
Образовни ниво
Докторат
Мој радни однос
У пензији сам
Моја струка
Остало
Назив мог радног места
Retired psychologist
Мој годишњи приход
$45.000USD до $59.999USD
Живим
Сам(а)
Код куће
Понекад ми дођу пријатељи
Пушим
Не
Пијем
Да - у друштву
Личност
У средњој школи био/била сам
Тих(а)
У друштву сам
Занимљив(а), Дружељубив/дружељубива, Посматрач, Отворен/отоврена, Уздржан/уздржана, Стидљив(а)
Моја интересовања и хобији
Аутомобили, Рачунари, Вечере, Вежбање/Тренирање, Учење, Филмове, Музика, Картање, Читање, Позориште, Путовања
Како замишљам провод
Дружење с пријатељима, Концерт, Читање, Блеја, Волим да останем код куће, Биоскоп, Волим да испробавам нове ствари
Мој савршен први састанак
Coffee and conversation that results in a good connection.
Одувек сам желео/желела да
exploring new ideas and adventures
Моји пријатељи кажу да сам
Дружељубив/дружељубива
Погледи/Животни ставови
Религија
Духован/духовна сам, али не религиозан/религиозна
Идем у цркву
Једном недељно
Мој животни циљ
To have my life mean something - to have good friends - to have an intimate lover/partner again.
Мој смисао за хумор
Пренаглашен, Паметан, Дружељубив/дружељубива
Укус
На ТВ-у увек гледам
Документарце, Драме, Филмове, Не волим ТВ
У биоскопу увек гледам
Акције, Научну фантастику, Комедије, Љубавне, Драме, Документарце, Трилере
Увек слушам
Амбијентална, Блуз, Класична, Џез
Увек читам
Аутобиографије, Биографије, Фикције, Мистерије, Научну фантастику
Како замишљам добру забаву
Out (or in) with a friend ;-) Making love with someone I care about. Taking a trip to someplace new - near or far.
Тражим
Шта Вас привлачи?
Одважност, Саосећајност, Флертовање, Изглед, Смисао за хумор, Интелигенција, Осећајност, Спонтаност, Брижљивост, Домишљатост
Шта тражите?
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'm looking to connect with. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
Какву везу тражите?
Састанак, Интима, Посвећеност