Looking to connect and maybe more
candide38
Santa Fe, New Mexico | Uomo Cerca un/una Uomo
Informazioni di base
Parlo
Inglese, Francese
Mi descriverei come
About me:
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
Segno zodiacale
Cancro
Apparenza
La mia corporatura è
Atletico
La mia altezza è
5' 10 (1.78 m)
I miei occhi sono
Azzurri
La mia etnia è
Europeo
Il mio stato civile è
Divorziato
Ho Figli
Sì - Non a casa
Voglio figli
No
Le mie caratteristiche migliori sono
Occhi
Body Art
Altro
I Miei capelli sono
Argento
Ho una o più di queste
Nessun animale
Volontà di trasferimento
Sì
Stato
Il mio livello di istruzione è
Laurea
La mia situazione lavorativa è
In Pensione
La mia specializzazione è
Altro
La mia professione è
Retired psychologist
Questo è quanto guadagno in un anno
da €45,000Euro a €59,999Euro
Vivo
Da solo
A casa
Visite occasionali di amici
Fumo
No
Bevo
Sì - Sociale
Personalità
Tornando alle Superiori, Ero
Tranquillo
Il mio comportamento sociale è
Comico, Amichevole, Osservatore, Estroverso, Riservato, Timido
I miei interessi e Hobby sono
Auto, Computer, Cene, Tenersi in forma, Istruzione , Fim, Musica, Giocare a carte, Letture, Teatro, Viaggi
Tempo speso bene secondo me:
Uscire con gli amici, Andare a un concerto, Leggere un libro, Relax, Stare a casa, I Film, Provare cose nuove
Un primo appuntamento ideale è
Coffee and conversation that results in a good connection.
Ho sempre voluto provare
exploring new ideas and adventures
I miei amici mi descrivono come
Amichevole
Punti di Vista
La mia religione è
Spirituale ma non religioso
Partecipo alle Funzioni
Una volta a settimana
I mie obiettivi nella vita sono
To have my life mean something - to have good friends - to have an intimate lover/partner again.
Il mio umorismo è di tipo
Campeggio, Saggio, Amichevole
Gusti
In televisione guardo sempre
Documentari, Film drammatici, Fim, Non mi piace la Tv
Quando vado al cinema vado sempre a vedere
Azione, Fantascienza, Commedie, Romantici, Drammatici, Documentari, Thriller
Quando ascolto musica ascolto sempre
Ambient, Blues, Classica, Jazz
Quando leggo, leggo sempre
Auto biografie, Biografie, Narrativa, Misteri, Fantascienza
La mia idea di divertimento è
Out (or in) with a friend ;-) Making love with someone I care about. Taking a trip to someplace new - near or far.
In cerca di
Cosa trovi attraente?
Audacia, Empatia, Civetteria, Bellezza, Umorismo, Intelligenza, Sensibilità, Spontaneità, Profondità, Acume
Cosa cerchi?
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'm looking to connect with. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
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