Looking to connect and maybe more
candide38
Santa Fe, New Mexico | Mann Suche eine/n Mann
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Ich kann sprechen
Englisch, Französisch
Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als
About me:
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
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Erscheinung & Situation
Mein Körpertyp ist
Athletisch
Meine Größe ist
5' 10 (1.78 m)
Meine Augen sind
Blau
Meine Herkunft ist
Europäisch
Mein Familienstand ist
Geschieden
Ich habe Kinder
Ja - nicht zuhause
Ich möchte Kinder
Nein
Meine beste Eigenschaft ist
Augen
Körperkunst
Andere
Mein Haar ist
Silber
Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere
Keine Haustiere
Bereit umzuziehen
Ja
Status
Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist
Universitäts-Abschluss
Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist
In Rente
Meine Spezialität ist
Andere
Mein Job-Titel ist
Retired psychologist
Ich verdiene im Jahr so viel
$45,000USD bis $59,999USD
Ich lebe
Alleine
Zuhause
Freunde kommen gelegentlich vorbei
Ich bin Raucher
Nein
Ich trinke
Ja - Sozial
Persönlichkeit
In der Hauptschule war ich
Stille(r)
Mein soziales Verhalten ist
Comedian, Freundlich, Aufmerksam, Offen, Reserviert, Schüchtern
Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind
Autos, Computer, Essen gehen, Trainieren, Lernen, Filme, Musik, Karten spielen, Lesen, Theater, Reisen
Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist
Mit Freunden ausgehen, In ein Konzert gehen, Ein Buch lesen, Entspannen, Daheim bleiben, Filme, Versuche neue Dinge
Ein ideales erstes Date wäre
Coffee and conversation that results in a good connection.
Ich wollte immer schon versuchen
exploring new ideas and adventures
Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als
Freundlich
Ansichten
Meine Religion ist
Spirituell aber nicht religiös
Ich besuche Gottesdienste
Einmal pro Woche
Mein Ziel im Leben ist
To have my life mean something - to have good friends - to have an intimate lover/partner again.
Mein Art Humor ist
Überspitzt homosexuell/Tuntig, Clever, Freundlich
Geschmack
Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an
Dokumentationen, Dramen, Filme, Ich habe keinen Fernseher
Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romanze, Drama, Dokumentation, Thriller
Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer
Stimmungsvoll, Blues, Klassik, Jazz
Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer
Auto-Biografie, Biografie, Fiction, Mystery, Science Fiction
Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist
Out (or in) with a friend ;-) Making love with someone I care about. Taking a trip to someplace new - near or far.
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Was findest du attraktiv?
Kühnheit, Einfühlungsvermögen, Flirtwillig, Gutes Aussehen, Humor, Intelligenz, Sensibilität, Spontanität, Nachdenklich, Esprit
Wonach suchst du?
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'm looking to connect with. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
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