Looking to connect and maybe more
candide38
Santa Fe, New Mexico | Hombre Buscando Hombre
Información Básica
Puedo hablar
Inglés, Francés
Me describiría a mi mismo como
About me:
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
Signo
Cancer
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
Atlético
Mi altura es
5' 10 (1.78 m)
Mis ojos son
Azules
Mi raza es
Europeo
Mi situación marital es
Divorciado
Tengo hijos
Si - No En Casa
Quiero tener hijos
No
Mi Mejor característica es
Ojos
Piercings, tatuajes…
Otros
Mi pelo es
Plata
Tengo uno o más de estos
Sin Mascotas
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
Si
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Diploma Universitario
Mi situación laboral actual es
Retirado
Mi especialidad es
Otros
Mi trabajo es como
Retired psychologist
Mi salario anual es de
$45,000USD a $59,999USD
Vivo en
Solo/a
En casa
Los amigos visitan ocasionalmente
Soy Fumador
No
Soy Bebedor
Si - Socialmente
Personalidad
En el instituto, era
Del Tipo Callado
Socialmente, me describiría como
Cómico, Amistoso, Observador, Extrovertido/a, Reservados, Tímido/a
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Coches, Computadoras , Cenar, Hacer ejercicio, Aprender, Películas, Música, Jugar a las cartas, Leer, Teatro, Viajar
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Salir con amigos, Ir a un Concierto, Leer un Libro, Relajarse, Quedarme en casa, Películas, Probar cosas nuevas
Mi primera cita ideal sería
Coffee and conversation that results in a good connection.
Siempre he querido probar
exploring new ideas and adventures
Mis amigos me describen como
Amistoso
Puntos de Vista
Mi religión es
Espiritual pero no religioso
Voy a la iglesia
Una vez a la semana
Mi meta en la vida
To have my life mean something - to have good friends - to have an intimate lover/partner again.
Mi sentido del humor es
Irónico/a, Inteligente, Amistoso
Gustos
En la TV, siempre veo
Documentales, Dramas, Películas, No me gusta la TV
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Acción, Ciencia Ficción, Comedia , Romance, Drama , Documentales, Suspense
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Ambiente, Blues, Clásica, Jazz
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Autobiografías, Biografías, Ficción, Misterio, Ciencia Ficción
Mi idea de diversión es
Out (or in) with a friend ;-) Making love with someone I care about. Taking a trip to someplace new - near or far.
Estoy buscando a
¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Audacia, Empatía, Coquetería, Buena Imagen, Humor, Inteligencia, Sensibilidad, Espontaneidad, Detallista, Ingenio
¿Qué estás buscando?
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'm looking to connect with. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Cita, Íntimos, Comprometido