Looking to connect and maybe more
candide38
Santa Fe, New Mexico | Bărbat În căutare de Bărbat
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About me:
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
Zodie
Rac
Aspect și situația
Tipul corpului meu este
Atletic
Înălțimea mea este
5' 10 (1.78 m)
Ochii mei sunt
Albaștri
Sunt de etnie
europeană
Starea mea civilă este
Divorțat(ă)
Am copii
Da - Nu acasă
Doresc copii
Nu
Caracteristica mea cea mai bună este
Ochi
Body Art
Altele
Părul meu este
Argintiu
Am mai multe de asta
Fără animale de companie
Dispus să mă mut
Da
Status
Nivelul meu de educație este
Diplomă de Universitate
Starea mea forței de muncă actuală este
Pensionar(ă)
Specializarea mea este
Altele
Denumirea postului meu de muncă este
Retired psychologist
Salariul meu anual este
45,000$ - 59,999$
Eu trăiesc
Singur(ă)
acasă
Prietenii vin ocazional
Fumez
Nu
Beau
Da - sociabil
Personalitate
În liceu am fost
Cuminte
Comportamentul meu social este
De comedie, Prietenos, Atent, Deschis, Închis, Timid
Interesele și hobby-urile mele sunt
Automobile, Calculatoare, Mese, Exercitare, Învățare, Filme, Muzică, Cărți de joc, Citire, Teatru, Călătorii
Distracția bună pentru mine este
Cu prietenii, La un concert, Citind o carte, Relaxare, Acasă, Filmele, Încercarea de lucruri noi
O prima întâlnire perfectă ar fi
Coffee and conversation that results in a good connection.
Întotdeauna am vrut să încerc
exploring new ideas and adventures
Prietenii mei mă descriu ca
Prietenos
Vizualizări
Religia mea este
Spiritual dar nu religios
Particip la servicii
O dată pe săptămână
Scopul meu în viață este
To have my life mean something - to have good friends - to have an intimate lover/partner again.
Genul meu de umor este
Inteligent, Deștept, Prietenos
Gust
La TV întotdeauna mă uit la
Documentar, Drame, Filme, Nu-mi place TV
Când mă duc la filme, mereu merg pentru a vedea
Acțiune, Științifico-fantastic, Comedie , Romantism, Dramă, Documentar, De aventuri
Când ascult muzică, mereu ascult
Ambient , Blues , Clasică, Jazz
Când citesc, eu citesc
Auto-biografie, Biografie, Ficțiune, Mister, Științifico-fantastic
Distracția pentru mine este
Out (or in) with a friend ;-) Making love with someone I care about. Taking a trip to someplace new - near or far.
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Ce vi se pare atractiv?
Îndrăzneală, Empatie, Flirt, Frumusețe, Umor, Inteligență, Sensibilitate, Spontaneitate, Grija, Rațiune
Ce căutați?
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'm looking to connect with. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
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Partener de întâlniri, Intim, Dedicat(ă)