Looking to connect and maybe more
candide38
Santa Fe, New Mexico | Férfi keres Férfit
Általános adatok
Idegen nyelvek:
Angol, Francia
Leírás
About me:
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
Jelentkezzen
Rák
Megjelenés és helyzete
Testalkatom
Sportos
Magasságom
1.78 m
Szemeim színe
Kék
Etnicitásom
Európai
Családi állapotom
Elvált
Vannak gyerekeim
Igen - Otthonon kivül
Szeretnék gyerekeket
Nem
Az amire büszke vagyok:
Szemek
Testművészet
Egyéb
Hajam színe:
Ezüst
Háziállatjaim
Nincs háziállat
Költözködés?
Igen
Állapot
Képzettségem
Egyetemi végzettség
Foglalkoztatásom
Nyugdíjas
Specialitásom
Egyéb
Munkaköröm
Retired psychologist
Ez évi bevételem
10,969,438 - 14,625,674 HUF
Lakáshelyzet
Egyedül
Otthon
Alkalmanként átjönnek a barátaim
Dohányzom
Nem
Kedvelem az alkoholt
Igen - társaságban
Személyiség
A középiskolában
Csendeske
Szociális magatartásom:
Komikus, Barátságos, Figyelmes, Társaságkedvelő, Tartózkodó, Szégyenlős
Hobbijaim:
Gépkocsik, Számítógépek, Vacsorák, Edzés, Tanulás, Filmek, Zene, Kártyázás, Olvasás, Színház, Utazás
Tökéletes szórakozás?
Barátkozás, Koncert, Könyv olvasása, Lazítás, Otthon tartózkodás, Filmezés, Új dolgok kipróbálása
A tökéletes első randi így néz ki számomra:
Coffee and conversation that results in a good connection.
Mindig kipróbáltam volna a(z)
exploring new ideas and adventures
Így látnak barátaim:
Barátságos
Nézetek
Vallási nézeteim:
Spiritualista
Részt veszek a vallási szertartásokon:
Hetente egyszer
Életcélom:
To have my life mean something - to have good friends - to have an intimate lover/partner again.
Humorérzékem:
Hajtűdobáló, Okos, Barátságos
Ízlés
Mit nézek?
Dokumentumfilm, Dráma, Filmek, Nem szeretem nézni a TV-ét
Mit nézek a moziban?
Akció, Tudományos fantasztikum, Komédia, Romantikus filmek, Dráma, Dokumentum film, Krimi
Amikor zenét hallgatok, mindig meghallgatom a
Hangulat zene, Blues, Klasszikus, Jazz
Mit olvasok?
Biográfia, Biográfia, Fikció, Rejtélyek, Tudományos fantasztikum
Mit jelent a szórakozás a részemre:
Out (or in) with a friend ;-) Making love with someone I care about. Taking a trip to someplace new - near or far.
keres
Mit tart vonzónak?
Merészség, Empátia, Flörtölős, Jó kinézet, Humor, Tudás, Érzékenység, Spontaneitás, Komolyság, Szellemesség
Mi az ami után kutat?
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'm looking to connect with. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
Mi után kutat?
Dátum, Intim kapcsolat, Elkötelezettség