Looking to connect and maybe more
candide38
Santa Fe, New Mexico | Mężczyzna Szukam Mężczyzna
Podstawowe Informacje
Znam Następujące Języki Obce
angielski, francuski
Widzę siebie jako osobę
About me:
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
Znak
Rak
Wygląd & Sytuacja
Mój typ budowy
Dobrze Zbudowany
Mój wzrost
5' 10 (1.78 m)
Moje Oczy Są
Niebieski
Moje pochodzenie
Europejski
Mój Stan Cywilny to
Rozwiedziony
Mam Dzieci
Tak - Poza Domem
Chcę Mieć Dzieci
Nie
Moje Najlepsze Zalety To
Oczy
Budowa Ciała
Inny
Moje Włosy Są
Srebrny
Mam Jedną Lub Więcej Z Tych Rzeczy
Nie mam zwierząt domowych
Jestem Skłonny Do Przeprowadzki
Tak
Status
Mój Poziom Edukacji To
Dyplom Ukończenia Studiów Wyższych
Mój Aktualny Stan Zatrudnienia To
Na Emeryturze
Moja Specjalność To
Inny
Mój Tytuł Zawodowy To
Retired psychologist
Tyle Zarabiam Rocznie
od $45,000USD do $59,999USD
Mieszkam
Sam/Sama
W Domu
Znajomi Odwiedzają Mnie Okazjonalnie
Jestem Palaczem
Nie
Piję Alkohol
Tak - Towarzysko
Osobowość
W Liceum Byłem Uważany Za
Cichy
Moje Zachowanie Społeczne Jest
Żartowniś, Przyjacielski, Obserwujący, Otwarty, Zdystansowany, Nieśmiały
Moje Zainteresowania I Hobby To
Samochody, Komputery, Posiłki, Ćwiczenia, Uczenie Się, Filmy, Muzyka, Gra w Karty, Czytanie, Teatr, Podróże
Mój Pomysł Na Dobrze Spędzony Czas To
Spędzanie Czasu z Przyjaciółmi, Pójście Na Koncert, Czytanie Książki, Relaks, Przebywanie w Domu, Filmy, Próbowanie Nowych Rzeczy
Idealna Pierwsza Randka To
Coffee and conversation that results in a good connection.
Zawsze Chciałem Spróbować
exploring new ideas and adventures
Moi Znajomi Opisują Mnie Jako Osobę
Przyjacielski
Poglądy
Moja Religia To
Duchowy, Ale Nie Religijny
Uczęszczam w Nabożeństwach
Raz w Tygodniu
Mój Cel Życiowy To
To have my life mean something - to have good friends - to have an intimate lover/partner again.
Mój Rodzaj Humoru To
Skrępowany, Mądry, Przyjacielski
Gust, Smak
W Telewizji Zawsze Oglądam
Dokumentalne, Dramaty, Filmy, Nie Lubię Oglądać Telewizji
Jak Idę Do Kina, To z Reguły Oglądam
Akcji, Fantastyka, Komediowe, Romantyczne, Dramatyczne, Dokumentalne, Thrillery
Kiedy Słucham Muzyki, Zawsze Słucham
Ambient, Blues, Klasyczna, Jazz
Gdy Czytam Zawsze Sięgam Po
Autobiograficzne, Biograficzne, Fikcyjne, Tajemnicze, Fantastyka
Mój Pomysł Na Rozrywkę To
Out (or in) with a friend ;-) Making love with someone I care about. Taking a trip to someplace new - near or far.
Szukam
Co Jest Dla Ciebie Atrakcyjne?
Śmiałość, Empatia, Flirciarz, Atrakcyjny Wygląd, Poczucie Humoru, Inteligencja, Wrażliwość, Spontaniczność, Troskliwość, Dowcipny
Czego Szukasz?
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'm looking to connect with. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
Jakiego Szukasz Związku?
Randka, Intymny, Oddany