Looking to connect and maybe more
candide38
Santa Fe, New Mexico | Man Op zoek naar een Man
Algemene Informatie
Ik spreek:
Engels, Franse
Ik beschrijf mezelf als:
About me:
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
I am 79, but don't look, feel, think, or act 79. I have lived an exceptionally exciting life and am looking to connect with other gay men who are enjoying their lives but looking for something or someone more. Connection with others is the key to life. So while I hope to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am seeking to make new friends. Getting together and sharing ideas, conversation and energy is win-win..... as is being close and giving and receiving affection.
I'm a kind, open-hearted kind of guy who loves life and is grateful for all that life brings. Challenges need to be met with an open mind and a healing sense of humor. My bright and optimistic energy frequently finds its outlet in song: been singing all my life in choirs, choruses and amateur opera.
I’m grateful for all that life brings. And when it presents challenges, humor sees me through. So, while I’m hoping to find the man who eventually becomes the one I simply cannot live without, I am open to friendship and casual relationships. I enjoy helping others and sometimes work part-time in the healthcare field. Younger guys and other races are so fine.
My first career - after graduating from the USAF Academy - was in the Air Force as a pilot and an exceptionally wide variety of other jobs - all in the closet, of course. During my 20 years in the Air Force, I lived in Europe, Asia, Africa and all over the states, and picked up 3 Master's degrees along the way. After I retired, I went back to school and picked up a doctorate in psychology. I have spent the years since in the field of healthcare, but am ready for a change.
My two LTR's were 10-15 years younger than me, and that seemed to work out really well, so I'm very much open to dating or connecting with younger guys. My first partner, Jim, who moved from California to be with me in Dayton, died after we were together for only six years. I think we'd still be together if he had lived. I got an invitation four years later to join a private practice in Vancouver BC, and moved there with much relief in 1995. Living where Jim and I had lived had just become too painful. My second partner, James, who was very involved in the artist community in Vancouver, decided to remain there when I moved to Santa Fe seven years ago.
My life has taken me many places - I have lived all over the States and in Canada, Asia, Europe and Africa. Santa Fe is my home at the moment, but I'm open to relocating for the right guy. I enjoy the area's weather, its opportunities for day trips and outdoor fitness, especially hiking. Working out three or four times a week keeps me somewhat fit, although there's always room for improvement..
About the guy I'm looking for:
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'd like to meet. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
Sterrenbeeld
Kreeft
Uiterlijk & Situatie
Mijn Lichaamstype Is
Athletisch
Mijn Lengte Is
5' 10 (1.78 m)
Mijn Ogen Zijn
Blauw
Mijn Ethniciteit Is
Europees
Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is
Gescheiden
Ik Heb Kinderen
Ja - Niet Bij Mij Thuis
Ik Wil Kinderen
Nee
Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is
Ogen
Body Art
Iets Anders
Mijn Haar Is
Witharig
Ik heb één of meer van deze
Geen huisdieren
Ben je bereid te verhuizen?
Ja
Status
Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is
Bachelor
Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is
Gepensioneerd
Mijn specialisatie is
Iets Anders
Mijn functie is:
Retired psychologist
Mijn jaarsalaris is:
Tussen de €45.000 en €60.000
Ik Woon
Alleen
Bij mij thuis
Komen er soms vrienden langs
Ik Ben Een Roker
Nee
Ik Drink
Ja - Als ik uitga
Persoonlijkheid
Op de middelbare school was ik
Stil
In sociale situaties ben ik
Grappig, Vriendelijk, Opmerkzaam, Gezellig, Gereserveerd, Verlegen
Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn
Auto's, Computers, Eten, Fitness, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Films, Muziek, Kaarten spelen, Lezen, Theater, Reizen
Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is
Met Vrienden zijn, Naar een concert gaan, Een boek lezen, Relaxen, Thuis blijven, Films, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen
Een perfecte eerste date is
Coffee and conversation that results in a good connection.
Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:
exploring new ideas and adventures
Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als
Vriendelijk
Meningen
Mijn Geloof Is
Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus
Ik Ga Naar Diensten
Een keer per week
Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is
To have my life mean something - to have good friends - to have an intimate lover/partner again.
Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is
Camp, Slim, Vriendelijk
Smaak
Op tv kijk ik:
Documentaires, Drama's, Films, Ik hou niet van tv
In de bioscoop kijk ik:
Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Romantiek, Drama, Documentair, Thriller
Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar
Ambient, Blues, Klassiek, Jazz
Ik lees graag
Autobiografie, Biografie, Fictie, Mysterie, Science Fiction
Mijn Idee Van Plezier is
Out (or in) with a friend ;-) Making love with someone I care about. Taking a trip to someplace new - near or far.
Zoekt
Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?
Moed, Empathie, Flirterig, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Intelligentie, Gevoeligheid, Spontaniteit, Bedachtzaamheid, Gevatheid
Wat zoek je?
I don’t have a detailed list describing the guy I'm looking to connect with. How educated you are isn’t particularly important---enjoying life certainly is. I’d like to spend time with a fun-loving man who shares some of my interests – someone who’s sensual and sensitive, and loves to give and receive physical affection. If you feel the same, drop me a line - let’s get together and see what happens. Take care…..John
Waar ben je naar op zoek?
Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid