Creative, fit, sexy, professional guy

Ik spreek:

Engels, Spaans

Ik beschrijf mezelf als:

Caring, compassionate, affectionate, masculine, creative, passionate about many things. I teach in a school of medicine (I'm actually a social scientist, not an MD), where I work on global health issues. I spent many years doing research in Mexico and still take groups of students there. I’m fluent in Spanish. But I’m not a central-casting academic. I’m much more playful, well-rounded, down-to-earth -- and definitely sexier. I’m a creative type. My second life is that of a semi-professional choral singer performing more than 20 concerts a year, most of them with a symphony orchestra. Classical music is my passion but I appreciate a wide range of music genres (jazz, folk rock). Other interests? I am actively into volunteering. I enjoy live theater, movies (especially indies and classics), interesting, hand-crafted wines, and gardening. Staying fit has become a major hobby. I lift weights and walk my dog nearly every day. I’m athletic and toned, in better shape and weighing less than when I was in college (149 lbs, 30" waist). I love outdoor activities. Recently I’ve discovered the joys of hiking, cycling, and ocean kayaking. I like to travel to out-of-the-way places and stay in small, romantic inns. I have traveled in Europe, the Far East, and Mexico; would like to visit Italy and New Zealand next. Mendocino in northern California and Kauai are favorite places. Anywhere with a dramatic seascape turns me on. I absolutely love dogs. Mine is Nena, an incredibly sweet Chocolate Labrador Retriever. Together we provide canine therapy for patients in two acute-care hospitals every week. I have a deep romantic streak, which partly explains my joy in making music but also translates very nicely into making love. I’m a great kisser and cuddler, and I also give a great massage. Bringing sexual excitement and joy to my partner is very important to me. I love sex and think I'm good at it, but the touching/cuddling/kissing part of being intimate is just as important to me. I'm emotionally stable, grounded, and very balanced in my lifestyle. I am a very caring, compassionate person. My students know me as a kind, big-hearted guy who will do everything he can to help them realize their potential. I believe seriously in "giving back," hence my active volunteering life. I’m very engaged in public affairs, both professionally and personally. I think you would find me fun to be around (my students tell me that I am, and they're tough critics). I definitely have a playful side. I am passionate about many things. I like to be adventurous and love to try new things. I am confident, happy (except about being single), straight-acting and masculine, warm, affectionate, nurturing, empathetic; a good communicator, an engaging conversationalist, and a sensitive listener. I believe that good communication is the essential glue that holds a relationship together. I have worked hard in recent years to develop my communication skills and believe I've succeeded. Finally, I am close to my family. My brother is gay, lives in the SF Bay area, and since my coming out we have become much closer. I have a sister and mother living in Pennsylvania with whom I remain very close. I have a wonderful, grown-up son who lives in SF. These close family ties are very important to me and, I believe, make me a better person.

Sterrenbeeld

Kreeft

Mijn Lichaamstype Is

Athletisch

Mijn Lengte Is

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Mijn Ogen Zijn

Bruin

Mijn Ethniciteit Is

Blank

Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is

Gescheiden

Ik Heb Kinderen

Ja - Niet Bij Mij Thuis

Ik Wil Kinderen

Niet Zeker

Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is

Glimlach

Body Art

Ik zou er niet eens aan denken

Mijn Haar Is

Lichtbruinharig

Ik heb één of meer van deze

Hond

Ben je bereid te verhuizen?

Ja

Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is

Bachelor

Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is

Deeltijd

Mijn specialisatie is

Bouw / Ambacht

Mijn functie is:

Professor of Global Public Health

Mijn jaarsalaris is:

Tussen de €100.000 en €150.000

Ik Woon

Alleen

Bij mij thuis

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Ik Ben Een Roker

Nee

Ik Drink

Ja - Als ik uitga

Op de middelbare school was ik

Nerd

In sociale situaties ben ik

Vriendelijk, Opmerkzaam, Gezellig

Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn

Koken, Eten, Fitness, Gezin, Tuinieren, Films, Muziek, Lezen, Religie / Spiritualiteit, Theater, Reizen, Vrijwilligerswerk

Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is

Met Vrienden zijn, Naar een concert gaan, Thuis blijven, Films, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen

Een perfecte eerste date is

Coffee or a glass of wine, dinner, perhaps a play or concert, and if the chemistry is really right, spending the night together.

Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:

Camping

Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als

Vriendelijk, Iemand die ze willen zijn

Mijn Geloof Is

Christelijk

Ik Ga Naar Diensten

Een keer per week

Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is

To promote better understanding of immigrants in America; to train the next generation of students to do socially meaningful work; to bring joy to people through music-making and canine therapy work with my dog, Nena.

Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is

Slim, Vriendelijk

Op tv kijk ik:

Nieuws, Drama's, Films

In de bioscoop kijk ik:

Komedie, Romantiek, Drama, Documentair, Thriller

Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar

Klassiek, Jazz

Ik lees graag

Fictie, Geschiedenis, Muziek, Politiek, Ik ben een schrijver

Mijn Idee Van Plezier is

Going to concerts and plays, hiking, kayaking, walking on the beach, spending a quiet evening at home cooking, watching a great movie, massaging my partner, getting both emotionally and physically intimate with him.

Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?

Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Intelligentie, Gevoeligheid, Spontaniteit, Bedachtzaamheid, Gevatheid

Wat zoek je?

A guy with serious potential to become my soul mate and life partner. I’m only interested in a deeply committed, monogamous LTR. What am I looking for? Someone with whom I can share many new experiences and adventures, who will challenge me in all sorts of ways (and be challenged himself). A playful guy who can appreciate my wry sense of humor. Someone who appreciates romantic gestures and is comfortable with public displays of affection. A guy who loves tender, slow, and passionate sex. Someone who is smart and who puts his intelligence to good use; who is physically fit and active; who is both caring and allows himself to be cared for. Because the arts and physical fitness are so important in my life, my ideal guy would be cool with going to concerts and plays with me and being a regular work-out and/or outdoor activities buddy. If he wants children at home I am totally open to that possibility. I'm mainly attracted to guys younger than myself but flexible on age, as long as a guy is active, fit, eager for new experiences and adventures, and has his emotional act together. I believe that age/difference relationships can be the most interesting and ultimately the most satisfying. Each guy brings a different set of life experiences to the table, complementing rather than duplicating. That can be truly exciting and energizing. I absolutely can keep up with you guys!

Waar ben je naar op zoek?

Date, Vastigheid