Creative, fit, sexy, professional guy

Je sais parler

Anglais, Espagnol

Je me décrirais comme

Caring, compassionate, affectionate, masculine, creative, passionate about many things. I teach in a school of medicine (I'm actually a social scientist, not an MD), where I work on global health issues. I spent many years doing research in Mexico and still take groups of students there. I’m fluent in Spanish. But I’m not a central-casting academic. I’m much more playful, well-rounded, down-to-earth -- and definitely sexier. I’m a creative type. My second life is that of a semi-professional choral singer performing more than 20 concerts a year, most of them with a symphony orchestra. Classical music is my passion but I appreciate a wide range of music genres (jazz, folk rock). Other interests? I am actively into volunteering. I enjoy live theater, movies (especially indies and classics), interesting, hand-crafted wines, and gardening. Staying fit has become a major hobby. I lift weights and walk my dog nearly every day. I’m athletic and toned, in better shape and weighing less than when I was in college (149 lbs, 30" waist). I love outdoor activities. Recently I’ve discovered the joys of hiking, cycling, and ocean kayaking. I like to travel to out-of-the-way places and stay in small, romantic inns. I have traveled in Europe, the Far East, and Mexico; would like to visit Italy and New Zealand next. Mendocino in northern California and Kauai are favorite places. Anywhere with a dramatic seascape turns me on. I absolutely love dogs. Mine is Nena, an incredibly sweet Chocolate Labrador Retriever. Together we provide canine therapy for patients in two acute-care hospitals every week. I have a deep romantic streak, which partly explains my joy in making music but also translates very nicely into making love. I’m a great kisser and cuddler, and I also give a great massage. Bringing sexual excitement and joy to my partner is very important to me. I love sex and think I'm good at it, but the touching/cuddling/kissing part of being intimate is just as important to me. I'm emotionally stable, grounded, and very balanced in my lifestyle. I am a very caring, compassionate person. My students know me as a kind, big-hearted guy who will do everything he can to help them realize their potential. I believe seriously in "giving back," hence my active volunteering life. I’m very engaged in public affairs, both professionally and personally. I think you would find me fun to be around (my students tell me that I am, and they're tough critics). I definitely have a playful side. I am passionate about many things. I like to be adventurous and love to try new things. I am confident, happy (except about being single), straight-acting and masculine, warm, affectionate, nurturing, empathetic; a good communicator, an engaging conversationalist, and a sensitive listener. I believe that good communication is the essential glue that holds a relationship together. I have worked hard in recent years to develop my communication skills and believe I've succeeded. Finally, I am close to my family. My brother is gay, lives in the SF Bay area, and since my coming out we have become much closer. I have a sister and mother living in Pennsylvania with whom I remain very close. I have a wonderful, grown-up son who lives in SF. These close family ties are very important to me and, I believe, make me a better person.

Signe

Cancer

Ma silhouette est

Athlétique

Ma taille est

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Mes yeux sont

Marrons

Mon origine ethnique est

Caucasienne

Ma situation maritale est

Divorcé/e

J'ai des enfants

Oui - pas chez moi

Je veux des enfants

Pas sûr/e

Ce que j'ai de mieux

Sourire

Art Corporel

Même pas envisageable

Mes cheveux sont

Châtains

J'en ai 1 ou plus

Chien

Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs

Oui

Mon niveau d'éducation est

Diplôme d'études supérieures

Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est

Mi-temps

Mon domaine de compétence est

Education / Académique

Mon titre de fonction est

Professor of Global Public Health

J'ai gagné cette année

De 100,000 € à 150,000 €

Je vis

Seul/e

Chez moi

Des amis passent à l'occasion

Je fume

Non

Je bois de l'alcool

Oui - socialement

Au lycée, j'étais un/e

Fana d'informatique

Socialement, je suis plutôt

Sympa, Observateur, Ouvert

Mes passions et loisirs sont

Cuisine, Dîner , Faire de l'exercice, Famille, Jardinage, Films, Musique, Lecture, Religion/Spiritualité, Théâtre, Voyages, Bénévolat

Un bon moment pour moi c'est

Sortir avec des amis, Aller à un concert, Rester à la maison, Regarder un bon film, Faire de nouvelles expériences

Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait

Coffee or a glass of wine, dinner, perhaps a play or concert, and if the chemistry is really right, spending the night together.

J'ai toujours voulu essayer

Camping

Mes amis me décrivent comme

Sympa, La personne qu'ils aimeraient être

Ma religion c'est

Chrétien

Je vais à la messe

Une fois par semaine

Mon but dans la vie c'est

To promote better understanding of immigrants in America; to train the next generation of students to do socially meaningful work; to bring joy to people through music-making and canine therapy work with my dog, Nena.

Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt

Intelligent, Sympa

A la télévision, je regarde

Actualités, Drames, Films

Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours

Comédies, Romantiques, Drames, Documentaires, Thrillers

Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est

Classique, Jazz

Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est

Fictions, Histoire, Musique, Politique, Je suis auteur

Mon idée du fun

Going to concerts and plays, hiking, kayaking, walking on the beach, spending a quiet evening at home cooking, watching a great movie, massaging my partner, getting both emotionally and physically intimate with him.

Que trouvez-vous attirant?

Beauté, Humour, Intelligence, Sensibilité, Spontanéité, Délicatesse, Bon sens

Que recherchez-vous?

A guy with serious potential to become my soul mate and life partner. I’m only interested in a deeply committed, monogamous LTR. What am I looking for? Someone with whom I can share many new experiences and adventures, who will challenge me in all sorts of ways (and be challenged himself). A playful guy who can appreciate my wry sense of humor. Someone who appreciates romantic gestures and is comfortable with public displays of affection. A guy who loves tender, slow, and passionate sex. Someone who is smart and who puts his intelligence to good use; who is physically fit and active; who is both caring and allows himself to be cared for. Because the arts and physical fitness are so important in my life, my ideal guy would be cool with going to concerts and plays with me and being a regular work-out and/or outdoor activities buddy. If he wants children at home I am totally open to that possibility. I'm mainly attracted to guys younger than myself but flexible on age, as long as a guy is active, fit, eager for new experiences and adventures, and has his emotional act together. I believe that age/difference relationships can be the most interesting and ultimately the most satisfying. Each guy brings a different set of life experiences to the table, complementing rather than duplicating. That can be truly exciting and energizing. I absolutely can keep up with you guys!

Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?

Rendez-vous, Engagement