Seeking Well Rounded Life Partner

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I'm a well educated, widely traveled man who is seeking someone with diverse interests, reasonable intelligence and who is sexually aware and mature. I like different kinds of music, particularly classic rock, instrumental, classical and Celtic. I am learning to play the classical guitar and also have an interest in learning to play other musical instruments. Reading, hiking, boating, photography, creative writing and cooking are some of the other hobbies and activities I like. I have an abiding and lifelong interest in science and mathematics, too. I like board games, particularly backgammon and chess. As for entertainment, I don't watch much TV with the exception of documentaries, football, basketball and cooking programs. With respect to movies, I love all kinds of sci-fi/fantasy films, as well as movies based on history, human relationships and biographies.

I want and am seeking a life partner for a committed, monogamous, long term relationship, but friendship is also very important to me. I love sex, especially with a partner who is confident, secure, and willing to try different things. I am an incurable romantic who appreciates giving and receiving the little gestures: a special smile, small gifts, wine and roses, a love note. I love to engage in what I call "slow cooker sex" meaning there is lots of foreplay, intense and passionate coupling and then a soft landing afterwards. I'm looking for a man who is intelligent, kind, a good conversationalist, thoughtful and sensitive. But I'd also like to meet a man who is not afraid of new things and has a sense of adventure. I'd especially be interested in someone to share my travels with. If you want to simply correspond with me, I would like that as well. I welcome friendships with men all over the world so write to me if you are so inclined.

I drink socially but do not smoke nor am I into drugs of any kind. I don't favor a particular body type and ethnicity is not a factor in my choice of partners. I am African-American. I am relatively smooth but like all kinds of men from smooth to bears. One last thing: If you don't have a face pic or are willing to share one, then please do not contact me. It's one thing to be in the closet, it's quite another to be invisible. I've put my pic on display here, and I think courtesy would ask others to do likewise even if they're on the downlow or want to be discreet.

Sign

Aries

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

6' 0 (1.83 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Never Married

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Grey

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Unemployed

My Speciality Is

Other

I Live

With Parent(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cooking, Dining, Family, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Sports, Theater, Travel

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv

An Ideal First Date Would Be

A meal in a quiet restaurant where my date and I could talk intimately.

I've Always Wanted To Try

A hot air balloon ride; sailing.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

To exercise my talents and abilities to the full, finding joy in doing so. "Life is a feast and most poor sons of bitches are starving to death."

My Kind Of Humor Is

Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Ambient, Classical, Folk, Jazz, New age, Rock

When I Read, I Always Read

Ancient, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Mathematics, Nature, News, Poetry, Political, Science, Science Fiction, Sports, I'm An Author

My Idea Of Fun Is

Hiking; eating out; play/movies; trip to park or museum; entertaining; playing the guitar; reading; photography shoots

What Do You Find Attractive?

Empathy, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

A confident man who knows how to make others feel good about themselves. A man who is generous with his time and his gifts, and who is also a romantic. A man who isn't afraid to ask for help and who will gratefully acknowledge the contributions of others.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Intimate, Committed