sixty one and a new part to my life

Jag kan tala

Engelska

Jag skulle beskriva mig själv som

Older retired guy, who understands that sitting on the sofa and waiting for something to happen is not a good plan. Had a great straight roommate for 33 years, my golden retriever for almost 15 and worked at a company for 37 years... now it's time for another part of my life. So I admit a little fishing is involved but can not think of another way of finding what I want. I started this a year ago. Turns out a lot of really nice people are out there. In fact, a lot of help deciding what I want. Not a lot of changes, still do not want to have anything think their expectations are the same as mine, if there is any doubt please ask. Did the bar thing in the late 1970 early 1980's the least rewarding, most depressing unsecessful way of meeting any person I have ever seen. I found it's nothing but looks, looks, looks, with people, mostly co-dependent especially finanically. Then there is the drama... emotionally draining. and a waste of time Went to work, found out a lot of gay men what just what everyone wants. Well, I am way to late to have a marriage, kids, learn to play the sports that I was always absolutely terrible so I have never enjoyed watching and as I get old have less and less patience with television and movies. So in retirement I wanted to work on maybe some voluteer work. What has surprised me is how aggressively I have gone after my bucket list this year. Last year it was a 1953 airstrem and now this a friendship, gym buddy and someone that fines it fun or at least funny in the bedroom. Continue working on my house, (a train wreck,) my old Airstream and learn to read books again. I know I have missed out a lot not being in the gay community for the past forty years. I want to do new things... and want to make sure being more gay is not something I miss out on completely. I fixed most of my emotional issues about 18 years ago after finding out that I'd been in depression for about 20 years and was having panic attacks so bad I was checking myself in to ER. So my old roommate understood, and he was willing to try to teach me how to play baseball, swim, Of course being 30 or 40 years behind in learning this wasn't sucessful but I tried. Last motocycle was a Honda CB1000. Too big, Too fast, and since I have no athletic ability a challenage to ride, but I loved it. That would be a good example of me trying to do something out of my comfort zone. Jumping off a bridge on a bungee cord, sorry can not do, and not even going to fake it. At the same time, I am not stupid... scared of water so I don't try to scuba dive. So, I am looking at a lot of new things and dating is certainly new.

Stjärntecken

Fiskarna

Min kroppstyp är

Några extra kilon

Min längd är

180 cm

Mina ögon är

Gröna

Min etnicitet är

Kaukasisk

Mitt civilstånd är

Aldrig varit gift

Jag har barn

Nej

Jag vill ha barn

Nej

Min bästa kroppsdel är

Navel

Mitt hår är

Silver

Jag har en eller flera av dessa

Hund

Villig att flytta

Nej

Min utbildningsnivå är

Universitetsexamen

Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är

Pensionerad

Min specialitet är

Annat

Min arbetstitel är

retired phone sales counter person super

Jag tjänar så här mycket per år

Mellan 150 000 och 300 000 kronor

Jag bor

Ensam

Hemma

Allt är lugnt

Jag är rökare

Nej

Jag dricker

Nej

I skolan var jag

Den utstötta

Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är

Vänlig, Uppmärksam, Utåtriktad, Blyg, Konstig

Mina intressen och hobbies är

Campa, Bilar, Motion, Trädgårdsarbete, Lärande, Läsa

Att ha kul innebär för mig

Gå på konsert, Läsa en bok, Tar det lugnt, Sover, Stanna hemma, Prova nya saker

Den idealiska första dejten för mig skulle vara att

talking and finding out who is like me, and kind of having the same direction. Finding out, like the older I get the more I find out there's a lot of people like me... but usually not gay. All my straight friends would say sex isn't a must on the first day.. but I can not think of one person I've know that sex wasn't included in the first day if it was considered successful. if things go right... maybe a little sex. I've been out to eat a lot, but still like it... not into going to clubs, was ok when I was drinking 20+ years ago...

Jag har alltid velat prova

Be able to be more causal about life. Not take life so serious and learn to not worry about what kind of impression I make. So sex is the latest and unexpected FUN thing I want to get involved with... Funny something everyone else takes for granted has seem to pass me right by. I rremember one of my first jobs, and one of my first bosses took me out to lunch and read me like a book. He told me not to falll in love with the first time I had sex. Well I fell in love with straight people so sex was never a problem... never had it. And when I would try with gay people it seemed there seemed to be nothing but drama, strings, and like my athletic abilities, being sexy was never a strong point. No big deal but just one of the things I want to be adventurous about but without regrets and drama. On the next question... I don't have any friends locally and haven't really looked for any in the past 12 years, my roomate, golden retriever, and work kept me busy. And I just did not caree enough or energy. Now I know it's time to change that... When I had my 30th birthday I had about 70 people there... 40 good friends, all straight moved on got married had kids. and all of that. SO now I want to find out ways to have friends... someone to go out to a democratic meeting, maybe a concert at UNLV or someone that enjoys getting a tan.

Mina vänner tycker att jag är

Vänlig, Någon de vill vara, Tramsig, Jag har inga vänner

Min religion är

Agnostiker

Jag går i kyrkan

Aldrig

Mitt mål i livet är

Has changed a lot in the last year. I was all over the place when I filled this out last summer. Now it's bucket list, this year learn if sex and going to the gym is fun... again. Work on house, 60 year old Airstream...KEEP my 14 month old golden retreiver busy and happy. Only person I want to be there for all the time is my niece. Other than this few items I open to suggestions. As I go through this I have found out more about myself. A lot of nice people out there, honest and straight forward. This is really good.

Min humor är

Torr / Sarkastisk, Vänlig, Tramsig, Obskyr

På TV tittar jag alltid på

Nyheter, Dokumentärer, Jag gillar inte TV

När jag går på bio ser jag alltid

Action, Science Fiction, Jag gillar inte filmer

När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på

Blues, Pop, Rock

När jag läser föredrar jag följande:

Fiktion, Historia, Politisk, Science Fiction

Det jag tycker är kul är

Being comfortable. Never was a thrill seeker, but did enjoy backpacking years ago, had a CB 1000, and like I said, scared me but it was fun. Learned to water ski, which is no big deal but water scares me... So now, not jumping off of bridges, but I want to find out if sex is fun. Pretty amazing I know... 62 years old and I don't even remember what it was like. I had so many issues I don't think I even came close to having the fun I should have. Now... I don't know if it's going to be fun or funny but either way it will be a win for me. Going to the Gym, same thing, fun or funny I still want to try again And fun for the other person too because you really are dealing with a "oddball" LOL So what the heck.

Vad tycker du är attraktivt?

Empati, Snygga drag, Humor, Egendomligheter, Känslighet, Omtänksamhet, Kvickhet

Vad letar du efter?

Some one who really knows who they are and what their abilities are. No sugar coating about themselves or life. Someone who isn't as judgemental as I am, and with some of the same thoughts about life as I have. No drama, no co-dependent... good friends and they are priceless. BUT sex has always been something everyone else gets,.. and like my athletic skills causes me to be pick last so now "we" going to work to change that. And the gym... oh yes, that's a hugh long term benefit...but I guess I need a buddy on this one, like sex..

Vilken form av förhållande söker du?

Vän, Intimt