sixty one and a new part to my life

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Older retired guy, who understands that sitting on the sofa and waiting for something to happen is not a good plan. Had a great straight roommate for 33 years, my golden retriever for almost 15 and worked at a company for 37 years... now it's time for another part of my life. So I admit a little fishing is involved but can not think of another way of finding what I want. I started this a year ago. Turns out a lot of really nice people are out there. In fact, a lot of help deciding what I want. Not a lot of changes, still do not want to have anything think their expectations are the same as mine, if there is any doubt please ask. Did the bar thing in the late 1970 early 1980's the least rewarding, most depressing unsecessful way of meeting any person I have ever seen. I found it's nothing but looks, looks, looks, with people, mostly co-dependent especially finanically. Then there is the drama... emotionally draining. and a waste of time Went to work, found out a lot of gay men what just what everyone wants. Well, I am way to late to have a marriage, kids, learn to play the sports that I was always absolutely terrible so I have never enjoyed watching and as I get old have less and less patience with television and movies. So in retirement I wanted to work on maybe some voluteer work. What has surprised me is how aggressively I have gone after my bucket list this year. Last year it was a 1953 airstrem and now this a friendship, gym buddy and someone that fines it fun or at least funny in the bedroom. Continue working on my house, (a train wreck,) my old Airstream and learn to read books again. I know I have missed out a lot not being in the gay community for the past forty years. I want to do new things... and want to make sure being more gay is not something I miss out on completely. I fixed most of my emotional issues about 18 years ago after finding out that I'd been in depression for about 20 years and was having panic attacks so bad I was checking myself in to ER. So my old roommate understood, and he was willing to try to teach me how to play baseball, swim, Of course being 30 or 40 years behind in learning this wasn't sucessful but I tried. Last motocycle was a Honda CB1000. Too big, Too fast, and since I have no athletic ability a challenage to ride, but I loved it. That would be a good example of me trying to do something out of my comfort zone. Jumping off a bridge on a bungee cord, sorry can not do, and not even going to fake it. At the same time, I am not stupid... scared of water so I don't try to scuba dive. So, I am looking at a lot of new things and dating is certainly new.

Zodie

Pești

Tipul corpului meu este

Câteva kilograme în plus

Înălțimea mea este

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Ochii mei sunt

Verzi

Sunt de etnie

caucaziană

Starea mea civilă este

Niciodată căsătorit(ă)

Am copii

Nu

Doresc copii

Nu

Caracteristica mea cea mai bună este

Buric

Părul meu este

Argintiu

Am mai multe de asta

Câine

Dispus să mă mut

Nu

Nivelul meu de educație este

Diplomă de Colegiu

Starea mea forței de muncă actuală este

Pensionar(ă)

Specializarea mea este

Altele

Denumirea postului meu de muncă este

retired phone sales counter person super

Salariul meu anual este

15,000$ - 29,999$

Eu trăiesc

Singur(ă)

acasă

Liniște totală

Fumez

Nu

Beau

Nu

În liceu am fost

Izgonit

Comportamentul meu social este

Prietenos, Atent, Deschis, Timid, Ciudat

Interesele și hobby-urile mele sunt

Camping, Automobile, Exercitare, Grădinărit, Învățare, Citire

Distracția bună pentru mine este

La un concert, Citind o carte, Relaxare, Dormit, Acasă, Încercarea de lucruri noi

O prima întâlnire perfectă ar fi

talking and finding out who is like me, and kind of having the same direction. Finding out, like the older I get the more I find out there's a lot of people like me... but usually not gay. All my straight friends would say sex isn't a must on the first day.. but I can not think of one person I've know that sex wasn't included in the first day if it was considered successful. if things go right... maybe a little sex. I've been out to eat a lot, but still like it... not into going to clubs, was ok when I was drinking 20+ years ago...

Întotdeauna am vrut să încerc

Be able to be more causal about life. Not take life so serious and learn to not worry about what kind of impression I make. So sex is the latest and unexpected FUN thing I want to get involved with... Funny something everyone else takes for granted has seem to pass me right by. I rremember one of my first jobs, and one of my first bosses took me out to lunch and read me like a book. He told me not to falll in love with the first time I had sex. Well I fell in love with straight people so sex was never a problem... never had it. And when I would try with gay people it seemed there seemed to be nothing but drama, strings, and like my athletic abilities, being sexy was never a strong point. No big deal but just one of the things I want to be adventurous about but without regrets and drama. On the next question... I don't have any friends locally and haven't really looked for any in the past 12 years, my roomate, golden retriever, and work kept me busy. And I just did not caree enough or energy. Now I know it's time to change that... When I had my 30th birthday I had about 70 people there... 40 good friends, all straight moved on got married had kids. and all of that. SO now I want to find out ways to have friends... someone to go out to a democratic meeting, maybe a concert at UNLV or someone that enjoys getting a tan.

Prietenii mei mă descriu ca

Prietenos, Cineva care ei vor să fie, Ridicol, Nu am nici un prieten

Religia mea este

Agnostică

Particip la servicii

Niciodată

Scopul meu în viață este

Has changed a lot in the last year. I was all over the place when I filled this out last summer. Now it's bucket list, this year learn if sex and going to the gym is fun... again. Work on house, 60 year old Airstream...KEEP my 14 month old golden retreiver busy and happy. Only person I want to be there for all the time is my niece. Other than this few items I open to suggestions. As I go through this I have found out more about myself. A lot of nice people out there, honest and straight forward. This is really good.

Genul meu de umor este

Sec / Sarcastic, Prietenos, Ridicol, Tainic

La TV întotdeauna mă uit la

Știri, Documentar, Nu-mi place TV

Când mă duc la filme, mereu merg pentru a vedea

Acțiune, Științifico-fantastic, Nu-mi plac filme

Când ascult muzică, mereu ascult

Blues , Pop , Rock

Când citesc, eu citesc

Ficțiune, Istorie, Politică, Științifico-fantastic

Distracția pentru mine este

Being comfortable. Never was a thrill seeker, but did enjoy backpacking years ago, had a CB 1000, and like I said, scared me but it was fun. Learned to water ski, which is no big deal but water scares me... So now, not jumping off of bridges, but I want to find out if sex is fun. Pretty amazing I know... 62 years old and I don't even remember what it was like. I had so many issues I don't think I even came close to having the fun I should have. Now... I don't know if it's going to be fun or funny but either way it will be a win for me. Going to the Gym, same thing, fun or funny I still want to try again And fun for the other person too because you really are dealing with a "oddball" LOL So what the heck.

Ce vi se pare atractiv?

Empatie, Frumusețe, Umor, Ciudățenii, Sensibilitate, Grija, Rațiune

Ce căutați?

Some one who really knows who they are and what their abilities are. No sugar coating about themselves or life. Someone who isn't as judgemental as I am, and with some of the same thoughts about life as I have. No drama, no co-dependent... good friends and they are priceless. BUT sex has always been something everyone else gets,.. and like my athletic skills causes me to be pick last so now "we" going to work to change that. And the gym... oh yes, that's a hugh long term benefit...but I guess I need a buddy on this one, like sex..

Ce fel de relație doriți?

Prieten, Intim