Creative, fit, sexy, professional guy

I Can Speak

English, Spanish

I Would Describe Myself As

Caring, compassionate, affectionate, masculine, creative, passionate about many things. I teach in a school of medicine (I'm actually a social scientist, not an MD), where I work on global health issues. I spent many years doing research in Mexico and still take groups of students there. I’m fluent in Spanish. But I’m not a central-casting academic. I’m much more playful, well-rounded, down-to-earth -- and definitely sexier. I’m a creative type. My second life is that of a semi-professional choral singer performing more than 20 concerts a year, most of them with a symphony orchestra. Classical music is my passion but I appreciate a wide range of music genres (jazz, folk rock). Other interests? I am actively into volunteering. I enjoy live theater, movies (especially indies and classics), interesting, hand-crafted wines, and gardening. Staying fit has become a major hobby. I lift weights and walk my dog nearly every day. I’m athletic and toned, in better shape and weighing less than when I was in college (149 lbs, 30" waist). I love outdoor activities. Recently I’ve discovered the joys of hiking, cycling, and ocean kayaking. I like to travel to out-of-the-way places and stay in small, romantic inns. I have traveled in Europe, the Far East, and Mexico; would like to visit Italy and New Zealand next. Mendocino in northern California and Kauai are favorite places. Anywhere with a dramatic seascape turns me on. I absolutely love dogs. Mine is Nena, an incredibly sweet Chocolate Labrador Retriever. Together we provide canine therapy for patients in two acute-care hospitals every week. I have a deep romantic streak, which partly explains my joy in making music but also translates very nicely into making love. I’m a great kisser and cuddler, and I also give a great massage. Bringing sexual excitement and joy to my partner is very important to me. I love sex and think I'm good at it, but the touching/cuddling/kissing part of being intimate is just as important to me. I'm emotionally stable, grounded, and very balanced in my lifestyle. I am a very caring, compassionate person. My students know me as a kind, big-hearted guy who will do everything he can to help them realize their potential. I believe seriously in "giving back," hence my active volunteering life. I’m very engaged in public affairs, both professionally and personally. I think you would find me fun to be around (my students tell me that I am, and they're tough critics). I definitely have a playful side. I am passionate about many things. I like to be adventurous and love to try new things. I am confident, happy (except about being single), straight-acting and masculine, warm, affectionate, nurturing, empathetic; a good communicator, an engaging conversationalist, and a sensitive listener. I believe that good communication is the essential glue that holds a relationship together. I have worked hard in recent years to develop my communication skills and believe I've succeeded. Finally, I am close to my family. My brother is gay, lives in the SF Bay area, and since my coming out we have become much closer. I have a sister and mother living in Pennsylvania with whom I remain very close. I have a wonderful, grown-up son who lives in SF. These close family ties are very important to me and, I believe, make me a better person.

Sign

Cancer

My Body Type Is

Athletic

My Height Is

5' 8 (1.73 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Light Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Part-time

My Speciality Is

Education / Academic

My Job Title Is

Professor of Global Public Health

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Nerd

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly, Observant, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Cooking, Dining, Exercising, Family, Gardening, Movies, Music, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Coffee or a glass of wine, dinner, perhaps a play or concert, and if the chemistry is really right, spending the night together.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Camping

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

To promote better understanding of immigrants in America; to train the next generation of students to do socially meaningful work; to bring joy to people through music-making and canine therapy work with my dog, Nena.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Dramas, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Classical, Jazz

When I Read, I Always Read

Fiction, History, Music, Political, I'm An Author

My Idea Of Fun Is

Going to concerts and plays, hiking, kayaking, walking on the beach, spending a quiet evening at home cooking, watching a great movie, massaging my partner, getting both emotionally and physically intimate with him.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

A guy with serious potential to become my soul mate and life partner. I’m only interested in a deeply committed, monogamous LTR. What am I looking for? Someone with whom I can share many new experiences and adventures, who will challenge me in all sorts of ways (and be challenged himself). A playful guy who can appreciate my wry sense of humor. Someone who appreciates romantic gestures and is comfortable with public displays of affection. A guy who loves tender, slow, and passionate sex. Someone who is smart and who puts his intelligence to good use; who is physically fit and active; who is both caring and allows himself to be cared for. Because the arts and physical fitness are so important in my life, my ideal guy would be cool with going to concerts and plays with me and being a regular work-out and/or outdoor activities buddy. If he wants children at home I am totally open to that possibility. I'm mainly attracted to guys younger than myself but flexible on age, as long as a guy is active, fit, eager for new experiences and adventures, and has his emotional act together. I believe that age/difference relationships can be the most interesting and ultimately the most satisfying. Each guy brings a different set of life experiences to the table, complementing rather than duplicating. That can be truly exciting and energizing. I absolutely can keep up with you guys!

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Committed