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I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I am a single GWM, younger-looking 40, nice guy-next-door type, 5 feet 9, 32-inch waist, one-sixty-five/one-seventy/hwp, smooth, a few tats. Good job/professional, clean-cut, no drugs/diseases or living hard. I attend church, enjoy spending time with my family and friends, I have a good heart, and try to be an honest, good person. I have a good job, a nice car and my own place in central Phoenix. I can't complain. Life is pretty good. Still, there's a huge void...I just need the man of my dreams. Business professional to leather...it doesn't matter, as long as he's real, confident and knows what he wants.

My best friend doesn't understand why I'm not in a relationship. He rattles off a long list of wonderful qualities that I supposedly possess...and it makes me wonder what the problem is. If I'm such a great prize, then where are all the men who should be banging down my door? After much thought, I realize what I need and want. So, I'm just going to lay all my cards out on the table. Grab a snack and read on...

Here's the problem: I need fun. I need adventure. I need a special man in my life to not only help me fully embrace myself, and my sexuality, but to actually live life...not just merely exist. It's a long story, but I'm a year out of a LTR that was a nightmare; he was abusive (physically and emotionally) and controlling, and we just were never right for each other. He cut me off from anything and everyone in the gay community, and I never experienced a lot of that. I don't know if I've missed anything, but after all this time, I'm ready to find out. I feel like I have. I want a nice guy...but does "nice" have to equate to "boring?" I don't think so. There has to be a decent guy with a good heart out there, who's also fun, adventurous, smart, funny, creative, and (yes) dirty... Are you the one Mom warned everyone about? I'm impressionable, and easily influenced (I could say just "easy, " but that's another posting!) In short, I need a caring, nice guy who's also a bad boy - or can be in the moment.

Sign

Sagittarius

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 9 (1.75 m)

My Eyes Are

Green

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat, Dog

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Medical / Health

My Job Title Is

administrative

I Make This Much In A Year

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Cars, Camping, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

I believe in keeping things simple, and getting to know each other. I think meeting at a bar or club is a terrible idea - it's too noisy, and there are too many distractions. I prefer a nice, quiet dinner out, or at home, and talking - finding out who we really are.

I've Always Wanted To Try

White water rafting!

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Perfect, Goofy

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

What IS happiness? That’s a complex and subjective question, and there isn't a right answer. Here's a snapshot of my daily life, and what would make me happy: I run off to my 9 to 5 job and rush home to get dinner on the table for my partner. I put his feet up, won't let him do a thing except relax. After dinner, quick cleanup, then we cuddle on the couch together and unwind. Off to bed, we make love, and I give up my ass all night. In the morning, I wake him with a long, slow blowjob or in the shower together. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat... That's it. What more could you ask for?

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Pop, Blues, Gospel, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Comic, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Music, Mystery, Religious, Science Fiction, Sports

My Idea Of Fun Is

I'm more quiet and soft-spoken, and I need someone who can encourage me to be more outgoing. I enjoy movies, music/concerts, sports. Love to read, cook (and I love to eat!), shopping. I am definitely a pet lover. Love the outdoors, long walks, hiking, road trips, bowling, having a board game night, or cuddling up on the couch with a DVD. tossing a frisbee in the park, swimming, the gym - though I'm not fanatical about it; it is, and should be, a way to stay healthy, not to fuel some sort of vanity or to just get laid. I'd love to have a partner to work out with, and keep me in check.
I'd be inclined to go out with my partner and have a good time and meet new friends together.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed