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gotham808

Manhattan, New York | Man Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I'm a stand up guy in a complex world, seeking some semblance of stability, simplicity and reality. Sure, I have fantasies of meeting my soulmate - who doesn't - and hope to at least find decent, civilized, cultured, educated, interesting and sincere guys, perhaps a bit quirky and unpredictable just to keep an edge on. I think these qualities also describe me, generally. My interests are too diverse to list - you probably have an idea of a large majority of them anyway. Love guys with facial and body hair, but it's not a deal maker/breaker. I expect of this site "experiment" what I invest into it, and optimistic to at least meet people I normally wouldn't have opportunity to. Could be you! Neg as of 12/09, never had an STD in my life, haven't even had a cold in over 20 years.
Sign
Scorpio

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 9 (1.75 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Asian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Smile
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Salt And Pepper
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes

Status

My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Consultant
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Socially
I Drink
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Teachers Pet
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Shy, Boisterous, Loud, Observant, Anti-social, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing, Dark, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Gardening, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Drinking, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Hmm...a strong mutual chemistry, lots of smiles and laughter, vibrant conversation, open, honest discussion of next steps - none of the tired old "i'll call you" stuff - just lay it out. We're grown boys.
I've Always Wanted To Try
I'm lucky to have caught the adventure travel bug early in life, have been to most countries, seen most of the wonders of the world, done some insane things. There's no thing or place I don't want to experience - lot's to discover out there.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Troublemaker, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Obscure, Goofy

Views

My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
To find complete peace and happiness.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Electronic, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Ambient, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Ancient, Biography, Business, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Mystery, Reference, Science, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is
Could be anything from sitting and thinking, to riding elephants in India, to presenting a lecture on a topic I have little knowledge on and pulling it off. Fun is a state of mind to me, not a specific activity or function. It's about finding the fun in the simple, mundane, exciting - whatever's at hand, and whether alone, with a friend or group. There should be fun in anything one does.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
What Do You Look For?
The long-term relationships i've been in have always been with extremely different types. The consistent amongst them have been integrity, a stable yet spontaneous lifestyle, honesty even if it's not pleasant, kindness, someone who is as comfortable alone or in a large crowd and allows me to have my own life as well as our shared one without judgement. I want someone to sweep me off my feet!
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed