Seeking Awake Partner

I Can Speak

English, Chinese

I Would Describe Myself As

I am an older man, happiest with a younger man (who is preferably but not exclusively, a top) and ideally between 50 and 62. I am, by most accounts, nice looking and comfortable in my body, though 70’s is, of course, not 50. I am pleasurably retired and seek somebody who is fully and satisfyingly employed. Passionate sex is a great joy for me as is literature, music, philosophy, theater, working out, and contributing through volunteering. I have spent extensive time in China, especially Shanghai and Beijing and speak a rudimentary Mandarin. I would hope that my partner (you?) would also have some intense interests of his own. Daoism as a path to enlightenment plays a major role in my life; you do not need to share this worldview, but a lack of cynicism would be a plus. I like to think of myself as deep but uncomplicated. I am a happy person looking for another happy person.

Sign

Capricorn

My Body Type Is

Slim

My Height Is

6' 0 (1.83 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Salt And Pepper

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Education / Academic

My Job Title Is

Business Owner and Professor (retired)

I Make This Much In A Year

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Class Clown

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Dining, Exercising, Family, Internet, Learning, Movies, Music, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Tv, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Reading A Book, Relaxing, The Movies

An Ideal First Date Would Be

First of all, the chemistry has to be right. I want my date to be easy on the eye. We would both be very interested in each other and also very willing to be candid about our likes, dislikes, and dreams. We would quickly discover each other's sense of humor, and, before long, we would also realize that there is a serious, deep dimension in each of us. Curiosity about life would be paramount.

I've Always Wanted To Try

I love train travel and would gladly go over vast distances of Asia, Latin America, or Europe by train. Also, The Queen Mary beckons for cross-Atlantic travel (next summer). There are some other things I would like to try but I can't write them here.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Buddhist / Taoist

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

My goal is life is to live in the moment, recognizing that all stress comes from believing one's thoughts.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Situation Comedies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Comedy, Drama, Documentary, I Don't Like Movies

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Classical, Pop

When I Read, I Always Read

Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fiction, History, Music, Mystery, News, Philosophy, Poetry, Political, Religious

My Idea Of Fun Is

I love sharing my retirement time with friends and family. Overnight train travel is my idea of heaven. Best trip so far; ten days on the Trans-Siberian Railway. I am drawn to people who find comfort in Taoist or Buddhist thinking. Also, I love lively conversation whether at home with friends, in good restaurants, or traveling.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Money, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

I look for a guy who loves to discuss politics, arts, current events, philosophy, music. I look for a friend who enjoys sex (primarily but not necessarily exclusively a top) and is open to the possibility of a LTR. I look for a man who knows who he is and is generous with his warmth, enjoyment of life, and family/friends. He is healthy.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Intimate