IF AN EGG CAN GET LAID, WHY CAN'T I?
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Santa Fe, New Mexico | Homme Cherchant Homme
Informations de base
Prénom
Rand
Je me décrirais comme
Howdy, gentlemen.
I have, let's be frank, spent much of my life waiting for Mister Right to come walking through my front door to sweep me off my feet. Deep down I've been nursing the hope, if not the belief, that there is somebody out there who is ideally suited to me, somebody I am fated to meet some day when I am truly ready.
But what do I mean by "ideally suited"? Always sexually compatible? Always emotionally supportive? Always financially generous? Always intellectually stimulating? Always available for companionship activities? Always spiritually aware?
What I usually mean by "someone ideally suited to me" is "Someone who is wholly delightful to me at all times while being wholly supportive of me even at my worst."
Now presumably, if such a person were my Mister Right, then I would be his. But can I honestly believe that I am capable of being wholly delightful and supportive to a partner at all times—even at my worst? I think not.
So I state for the record: I have not come to Gay Mature Dating to find a perfect, selfless savior-boyfriend. I've come by to connect with a community of beautiful, flawed, life-loving guys like myself.
My hope? That I can support you and you me in this adventure of fun, frolic, agony, affection, lust, and self-discovery. And I refuse to let my "perfect lover" fantasy protect me from this.
So to paraphrase a Buddhist saying: When next you meet Mister Right on the road, kill him.
I have, let's be frank, spent much of my life waiting for Mister Right to come walking through my front door to sweep me off my feet. Deep down I've been nursing the hope, if not the belief, that there is somebody out there who is ideally suited to me, somebody I am fated to meet some day when I am truly ready.
But what do I mean by "ideally suited"? Always sexually compatible? Always emotionally supportive? Always financially generous? Always intellectually stimulating? Always available for companionship activities? Always spiritually aware?
What I usually mean by "someone ideally suited to me" is "Someone who is wholly delightful to me at all times while being wholly supportive of me even at my worst."
Now presumably, if such a person were my Mister Right, then I would be his. But can I honestly believe that I am capable of being wholly delightful and supportive to a partner at all times—even at my worst? I think not.
So I state for the record: I have not come to Gay Mature Dating to find a perfect, selfless savior-boyfriend. I've come by to connect with a community of beautiful, flawed, life-loving guys like myself.
My hope? That I can support you and you me in this adventure of fun, frolic, agony, affection, lust, and self-discovery. And I refuse to let my "perfect lover" fantasy protect me from this.
So to paraphrase a Buddhist saying: When next you meet Mister Right on the road, kill him.
Signe
Taureau
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Baraqué(e)
Ma taille est
5' 7 (1.7 m)
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne