Healthy, Mature, POZ guy seeks Soul-Mate
EssieMac
Atlanta, Georgia | Mand Søger en Mand
Grundlæggende oplysninger
Jeg taler
Engelsk
Jeg beskriver mig selv som
I'm just a really great guy who "wants" (not "needs") a really great guy to share a life with. Honesty and integrity are very important to me. So are spirituality, romance, and a great sense of humor. My sense of humor is very sarcastic, a trait I inherited from my mother and her seven, yes 7, sisters. Passion is also very important. By that I don't mean just romantic passion, which is high on my list, but passion about life, about one's calling.
I enjoy singing in my church choir. There is just something about good church music that lets me know there has to be a greater being, one that truly appreciates the diversity of the world because, after all, she/he did create it! I love traveling when I get the opportunity
and hope eventually to make it to the home of my ancestors,
Scotland. I have been having a great deal of fun as of late studying genealogy, specifically the genealogy of my own family. I collect teddy bears, shot glasses and James Dean memorabilia. I love burning candles and incense. A perfect evening for me is candle light, incense, Celtic music and a sensual massage. I could go on, but I have to
leave something for you to discover in person!
I am living with HIV, and have been for over 23 years. I have had some health issues in the past few years, but not related to HIV. As far as the virus is concerned, it’s undetectable and I’m pretty healthy. The biggest issue I have faced is the stigma and prejudice that seems to go along with it. I wish that some folks realized how hurtful it actually is when they put things like “DDF, UB2” in their profiles. My feeling is that if you don’t want to date someone for a certain reason, then don’t. But there is no reason to be hurtful about it!
I decided a while back that I needed to either live with person I was sleeping with, or live alone. Currently, I live alone. Well, I do have a puppy, named Thor. My ideal mate is someone with honesty and integrity; one who isn't afraid to live from his heart. He doesn't smoke or do any drugs. He is very passionate in love and in life. He has a great sense of humor. I’d like to find a younger guy, say between 25 and 45. He should be very touchy-feely and affectionate. He doesn't have to be totally butch, but he shouldn't be totally femme either. No "straight acting" unless you're playing a part on stage. The rest of the time, be who you are, and be proud of it. It's what God intended you to be. Physically, I'm most attracted to men who are height/weight proportionate. Other than that, pretty much anything goes (although, if you’ve got nice calf muscles, well…). I do find smooth bodies extremely nice, but the older I get, the more I appreciate a hairy man as well. I’m most attracted to younger guys when they are mature; know who they are and what they want. Otherwise, be close to my age, no more than 5 or 6 years older. I don’t have a favorite hair color, or length. Sometimes I find a man with long hair very sexy, but often like a completely bald head as well as everything in between. Neither do I have a favorite eye color, but the deeper the color, whatever it is, the more I am drawn. I am often attracted to men of European, Native-American, Latin, Hispanic, African-American or Asian decent. A foreign accent will usually make me melt. Lately I'm kind of turned on by Russian and Irish accents. It all really just depends on the guy. By the way, I am also attracted to regular American Caucasians as well.
I've learned that as painful as some of my relationships have been, I am better for having had them, good or bad, than I would have been without them. We ALL have baggage, and I believe that anyone who thinks they don’t is fooling themselves. To me, it just means you’re well traveled. What you’re carrying isn’t so important as how you carry it. I certainly don’t mind helping you with your load. I only hope to have the same from you. The old song “He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother” comes to mind.
I enjoy singing in my church choir. There is just something about good church music that lets me know there has to be a greater being, one that truly appreciates the diversity of the world because, after all, she/he did create it! I love traveling when I get the opportunity
and hope eventually to make it to the home of my ancestors,
Scotland. I have been having a great deal of fun as of late studying genealogy, specifically the genealogy of my own family. I collect teddy bears, shot glasses and James Dean memorabilia. I love burning candles and incense. A perfect evening for me is candle light, incense, Celtic music and a sensual massage. I could go on, but I have to
leave something for you to discover in person!
I am living with HIV, and have been for over 23 years. I have had some health issues in the past few years, but not related to HIV. As far as the virus is concerned, it’s undetectable and I’m pretty healthy. The biggest issue I have faced is the stigma and prejudice that seems to go along with it. I wish that some folks realized how hurtful it actually is when they put things like “DDF, UB2” in their profiles. My feeling is that if you don’t want to date someone for a certain reason, then don’t. But there is no reason to be hurtful about it!
I decided a while back that I needed to either live with person I was sleeping with, or live alone. Currently, I live alone. Well, I do have a puppy, named Thor. My ideal mate is someone with honesty and integrity; one who isn't afraid to live from his heart. He doesn't smoke or do any drugs. He is very passionate in love and in life. He has a great sense of humor. I’d like to find a younger guy, say between 25 and 45. He should be very touchy-feely and affectionate. He doesn't have to be totally butch, but he shouldn't be totally femme either. No "straight acting" unless you're playing a part on stage. The rest of the time, be who you are, and be proud of it. It's what God intended you to be. Physically, I'm most attracted to men who are height/weight proportionate. Other than that, pretty much anything goes (although, if you’ve got nice calf muscles, well…). I do find smooth bodies extremely nice, but the older I get, the more I appreciate a hairy man as well. I’m most attracted to younger guys when they are mature; know who they are and what they want. Otherwise, be close to my age, no more than 5 or 6 years older. I don’t have a favorite hair color, or length. Sometimes I find a man with long hair very sexy, but often like a completely bald head as well as everything in between. Neither do I have a favorite eye color, but the deeper the color, whatever it is, the more I am drawn. I am often attracted to men of European, Native-American, Latin, Hispanic, African-American or Asian decent. A foreign accent will usually make me melt. Lately I'm kind of turned on by Russian and Irish accents. It all really just depends on the guy. By the way, I am also attracted to regular American Caucasians as well.
I've learned that as painful as some of my relationships have been, I am better for having had them, good or bad, than I would have been without them. We ALL have baggage, and I believe that anyone who thinks they don’t is fooling themselves. To me, it just means you’re well traveled. What you’re carrying isn’t so important as how you carry it. I certainly don’t mind helping you with your load. I only hope to have the same from you. The old song “He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother” comes to mind.
Underskriv
Aquarius
Udseende & Situation
Min kropstype er
Gennemsnitlig
Min højde er
180 cm
Mine øjne er
Blå
Min etnicitet er
Kaukasisk
Min civilstand er
Single
Jeg har børn
Nej
Jeg vil have børn
Ikke sikker
Mit bedste karaktertræk er
Ben
Kropsudsmykning
Piercet... Men kun øre(r), Stategisk placeret tatovering, Synlig tatovering
Mit hår er
Skaldet
Jeg har en eller flere af disse
Hund
Villig til at flytte
Nej
Status
Mit uddannelsesniveau er
Universitetsgrad
Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er
Pensioneret
Mit speciale er
Kunst / musik / litteratur
Jeg bor
Med kæledyr
Hjemme
Alt er roligt
Jeg er ryger
Nej
Jeg drikker
Ja - til fester
Personlighed
I gymnasiet var jeg
Udstødt
Min sociale opførsel er
Flirtende, Venlig, Observerende, Genert
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Kunst og håndværk, Camping, Computer, Madlavning, Spise til middag, Familie, Internet, Film, Musik, Religion / Spiritualitet, Teater, Tv
Min idé om at have det sjovt er
Være sammen med venner, Shoppe, Tage til koncert, Læse en bog, Afslappende, Være hjemme, I biografen
En ideel første date ville være
A perfect first date could be anything from a walk in the park, to dinner and a movie, to drinks or coffee at a quiet location. It's more about the company than the activity.
Mine venner beskriver mig som
Venlig, Ballademager, En flirt
Synspunkter
Min religion er
Kristen
Jeg deltager i tjenester
En gang om ugen
Min form for humor er
Snu, Tør / sarkastisk, Venlig
Smag
I tv ser jeg altid
Nyheder, Dramaer, Sitcoms, Film, Reality Shows, Sæbeoperaer, Genudsendelser
Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en
Handling, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama
Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til
Klassisk, Land, Folk, Gospel, Jazz, New age, Pop, Rock
Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid
Biografi, Fantasy, Fiktion, Historie, Filosofi, Overnaturlig, Religiøs, Science Fiction
Leder efter
Hvad finder du attraktivt?
Skaldethed, Empati, Flirtende, Flot udseende, Humor, Intelligens, Følsomhed, Spontanitet, Omtanke, Morsom
Hvilken type forhold leder du efter?
Dato, Intim, Forpligtet